Affirmations doesn´t work for me

An affirmation is a positive statement with the purpose to help you make a positive change to your life. Here are some examples:

* I´m happy and joyful
* Everything works out fine for me
* I´m healthy and strong
* Money flows to me
* I´m a magnet for money
* I love my body
* I´m slim and fit

And affirmations are a very effective tool to work with but I´ve noticed that some people experience that affirmations doesn´t work for them. So in this post I´m gonna tell you the secret to get your affirmations to work fast and effective.

So why doesn´t affirmations work?

An affirmation is a statement about things that you want in your life which means that they aren´t really true. If the affirmation is very far from your reality it can make you irritated, in a bad mood and even slightly depressed. And the reason for that is that the affirmation constantly reminds you of your reality, it reminds you of what you don´t want in your life. And that can even have the opposite effect. This can result in that you get more of what you don´t want. So that´s the main reason why affirmations doesn´t work for you. But, there is a way for you to make the affirmations work the way it´s intended and I´m gonna tell you exactly how to do that.

So how do I get the affirmations to work for me?

As our feelings are created by words and thoughts and since affirmations are made out of words the key is what words you choose. In this example I´m gonna use money. Say that you have no money and of course you want more, just thinking of money makes you depressed so you start to work with affirmations. So you do a search and find a bunch of affirmations like: “I attract money”, “I receive money easily”, “I earn a lot of money”, “I have more than enough money”, “Every day I am attracting and saving more and more money”, “I am debt free as money is constantly flowing into my life.”. If you don´t have any money these statements will just be very irritation and annoying, right? And irritation doesn´t solve any problems. But we can make this affirmations work just by refrasing them in a way that makes you feel joyful. Let me show you how.

I attract money refrased Wouldn´t it be nice if I attracted money? or I have the ability to attract money.

I receive money easily refrased Wouldn´t it be nice to receive money easily or I have the ability to receive money easily

I earn a lot of money refrased Wouldn´t it be nice to earn a lot of money? or I have the ability to earn a lot of money.

If you read the examples above you can feel that they attract different feelings, right? Some makes you feel more positive and some makes you fell more negative. So, when you work with affirmations remember that the most important thing is to choose the formulations that makes you most joyful. No matter what the subject of your affirmations, the most important thing is that they make you feel happy and expectant.

Feel free to share your thoughts about affirmations. Do you have a success story about affirmations I´d love if you´ll share it with us. 🙂

And as usual I hope that you can understand my English although I´m from Sweden.

You Rock!!!